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Coping with Brain Injury During the Holidays

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For victims of acquired brain injury, the time of year that once brought great joy may now be the most difficult time of year. Brain injury victims often struggle to cope with, among other sequelae, memory problems, obsessive compulsive behaviors, an aversion to loud noises, big crowds, and bright lights, decreased communication skills, and special diets. Imagine the terror of tying to cope with these issues while being expected to attend holiday parties and large family functions.

I read a wonderful piece in the Augusta Free Press advising brain injury victims how to cope with the holidays. Some suggested ways for making the holidays fun and less stressful for all, particularly when persistent cognitive /behavioral issues are problematic include:

1. Holiday shopping should be a fun activity and indoor malls are weather controlled and safe places for strolling on foot and/or for those wheelchair or walker assisted. However, the holiday period can make shopping less than a fun activity without preplanning. Start early to avoid the holiday crowds and use the opportunity to incorporate cognitive exercises into the planning. The individual with brain injury should make a list of gifts to be purchased or hand made, when possible, suggested gift ideas and estimates of costs associated with the gifts.

2. Catalogs that come in the mail this time of year are wonderful for gift ideas and also for estimation of prices. Take some time to sit down and look through a few as part of the independent planning phase.

3. Make out a simple budget before going to the bank and allow your family member with brain injury as much control of the funds as possible even though money management skills may be impaired.

4. Place greater emphasis on use of journals or calendars to record routine events as well as holiday activities. Schedule a week in advance, with a daily review to make note of any changes as they come up. Those accustomed to a daily routine may be better prepared when special dates and activities are written in the journal and/or on the calendar in colored ink for emphasis.

5. Each day, during the holidays, orient the individual by discussing the day’s activities over breakfast to avoid misunderstandings about changes from the normal routine. It is helpful to repeat this information several times during the day for those with severe memory problems.

6. If bright or flashing lights bother your family member and/or possibly trigger seizures, carefully plan any additional lighting that will be used during the holidays and avoid laser holiday lighting displays.

7. Crowded places and loud music may also bother some individuals and should be taken into consideration and monitored, if necessary.

8. Food is a big part of holiday fun and many of the foods may be very temptingly displayed. Parties, holiday family dinners, and open house gatherings are often scheduled at times that do not coincide with routine mealtimes, thus, presenting a problem for those whose mealtimes are more rigidly scheduled. You may want to offer a light snack at the regular mealtime to “tide him/ her over” until the main meal, or make whatever adjustments are necessary. For those with more severe cognitive deficits, which interfere with appropriate food intake, it may be necessary to help with monitoring to avoid overeating. It is very common for damage in the hypothalamus area of the brain to interrupt signals to the brain which help the individual know when their appetite has been satisfied, thus, many with brain injury need help with quantity control monitoring. Additionally, memory problems and attention can derail a persons resolve to watch their food intake to avoid excessive food and beverage intake. After a brain injury burning of calories may also be changed and individuals who could eat anything and everything before the injury may need to more diligently watch calories to avoid weight gain.

9. By all means don’t forget that increased activity during the holidays may be more fatiguing than usual so plan rest periods accordingly. This is particularly important when cognition and behavior are problems. Fatigue often increases confusion that can result in an outburst or other kinds of unpleasant behaviors.

10. Structure can be your best strategy for ensuring the entire family has a higher quality of life. Initially it takes effort to get the structure in place but it pays dividends in the end. Flexibility is a key word during the holiday season but planning and preparation will hopefully result in a happy holiday for family and friends.

Next comes New Year’s resolutions! Start thinking about ways your entire family can enjoy life more fully, fulfill the demands of your caregiving role and provide the best possible quality of life for your family member with brain injury.

Most of us take these simple pleasures for granted. As the father of a young adult with who suffers from the effects of brian injury and someone who represents victims of acquired brain injury, I know the importance of structure and routine in my child’s life. There’s nothing like the holidays to disrupt this routine.

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  1. Mike Bryant says:
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    This is really great information. It truly makes a difference to understand these injures and to help people cope with them.